Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible

(photo by the negotiation room) Dedicated to the role players in my life and my son (Kwandile Mkhize) By Mhleli Mkhize (Journalist & blogger) “I have always believed, and I still believe, that whatever good or bad fortune may come our way we can always give it meaning and transform it into something of value.” A blogger once wrote “Let go of the past and go for the future. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you imagined.” - Henry David Thoreau And i agree, life can hit hard. Sometimes you get knocked down when you don’t even see it coming. Some are cheap shots, some are glancing blows and some can bring you to your knees. When this happens, it’s not about how hard you get hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, but still find the strength to keep moving forward. It’s about having the will to continue in spite of the obstacles. Leave your mistakes and regret in the past. They don’t define your value, then or